The Forum of the Diary of Mrs D - Rouva D:n päiväkirjan keskustelufoorumi

My Favourite Inmate

mybb@mybb.ru (Rouva D) — Fri, 08 May 2026 14:11:48 +0300

Straightjackets - pakkopaidat

mybb@mybb.ru (Rouva D) — Fri, 08 May 2026 14:09:48 +0300

Cuffed - Raudoissa

mybb@mybb.ru (Rouva D) — Fri, 08 May 2026 14:04:05 +0300

Prisoners in chains

mybb@mybb.ru (Rouva D) — Fri, 08 May 2026 14:03:12 +0300

Straps

mybb@mybb.ru (Rouva D) — Wed, 11 Mar 2026 15:31:51 +0300

Kuulumisia / little news

mybb@mybb.ru (Rouva D) — Sat, 07 Mar 2026 12:24:35 +0300

No niin, täällä taas pitkästä aikaa. Ei meinaa muistaa itsekään käydä täällä, eikä "mainostaa" foorumia, kun Facebookissa pöhisee niin kivasti. :D

Asiat ovat kuitenkin edelleen mallillaan, O pysyy kiinnitettynä ja minä nautin tilanteesta, kuten haluan...

From my diary

mybb@mybb.ru (Rouva D) — Wed, 25 Feb 2026 15:44:50 +0300

The power is in the details

Long time no see! Sorry that the blog has been so quiet. But now I'm back to normal and have had time to write (and read your lovely letters) more often. Summer and vacation have been wonderful times. I've enjoyed it immensely and so has O. At the cottage you can be so free, to do whatever you want. The cottage neighbors are far enough away that O's occasional antics don't really disturb other people's summer days. (Of course, I always put a gag on if I assume that a slightly... noisier situation is ahead.)

At the cottage, O is locked up all the time, at least in handcuffs and leg cuffs. And preferably without clothes, as long as Finland's short and snowy summer allows it. I'm not a particularly sadistic person, and I wouldn't be happy to watch O freeze in a fresh summer hailstorm without a thread tied around it. But when the heat is nice, I prefer to look at naked buttocks and a strong back without any disturbing pieces of fabric.

In our everyday lives, we live (almost) like normal couples, we do things on a relatively equal footing. However, there is always some kind of power element present, O never completely forgets his position or me and my position in relation to him. At its smallest, that reminder is a bracelet on his wrist, at its strongest... well, a little more and all sorts. For example, at the World Rally Championship rallies in Jyväskylä's Harju, where there were as many people as there were hats, O only had a leather bracelet with a regular buckle. I had another one from the same pair. It connected us visually. The bracelets have metal links. If necessary, I could grab O's bracelet by the link and, for example, imperceptibly pull her hand down a little. In this case, O had to bend his knees and remember that one must always kneel in front of the queen. O also always walks a step behind me. He only goes ahead if it is necessary, such as when opening a door for me, etc. Power resides in the details.

When we walk outside, O should always stay on my right side and one step behind me. Not visibly behind me, but just enough so that I walk a little ahead. An outside observer might not even notice this, this is how we naturally move. O slips into place naturally when we set off and knows how to skillfully take care of his position in relation to me. O is also a perfect gentleman in terms of behavior; I don't have to open doors or drive the car unless I specifically want to.

Being outside made me think of "going out" as in a bar or a party. I love parties, because I can be seen and be seen, just as I am. There are parties coming up again during the fall. But more on that another time.

A wonderful start to fall to all my readers!

- Mrs D

AI-generated images of uniforms

mybb@mybb.ru (Rouva D) — Mon, 09 Feb 2026 14:24:42 +0300

A pic made by me for a little story I�m working on in DeviantArt.

Prison pics (photos and ai-images)

mybb@mybb.ru (Rouva D) — Sat, 10 Jan 2026 15:18:46 +0300

Gear and stuff

mybb@mybb.ru (Rouva D) — Sun, 04 Jan 2026 22:45:30 +0300

Sana on vapaa / Free speech

mybb@mybb.ru (Rouva D) — Thu, 18 Dec 2025 11:12:51 +0300

Inmate_1212 wrote:

Dear Rouva D (Mrs D)

Inmate_1212 reports being present. Good morning, Ma`am.

My morning routine is always the same: I detach myself from the short bed chain, get up, make the bed, and lock myself to the wall with a longer "day chain". Then I enjoy a simple breakfast.

What is Your morning usually like? Does prisoner O sleep beside you, or does he have his own place (cage)?

Respectfully,
Inmate_1212

Good day, Inmate_1212

My mornings usually? Hmm. That depends where and how I have restrained prisoner. If he sleeps in his cage, I let him be there until I�m ready (drunk my coffee etc). If chained to my bed, I�ll unlock him so that he can go and make me some breakfast.
When I start to work (remotely), I let prisoner do his duties, in basic steelrestraints (hands and feet with combining chain).
I just love the clinking of metal chains in the morning! :D

Restraints - kahleet

mybb@mybb.ru (Rouva D) — Thu, 18 Dec 2025 11:06:23 +0300

Cell - selli

mybb@mybb.ru (Rouva D) — Mon, 01 Dec 2025 18:05:47 +0300

Chastity

mybb@mybb.ru (Rouva D) — Sun, 30 Nov 2025 20:27:46 +0300

A new kink unlocked - Uusi kinkki löytynyt

mybb@mybb.ru (Leatherlover89) — Tue, 18 Nov 2025 23:07:47 +0300

Dreadful times indeed, but oh my they had taste in design!

Very true, the boots are not very fitting... Not that easy to find real, good pics of these kind of things that are not flat out porn though..
It can be a very thrilling sight without all the sexualization as well 😉

HOW TO BE A GOOD BOY For Alpha Females In A Relationship With A Female

mybb@mybb.ru (Ponytail2020) — Mon, 10 Nov 2025 20:18:23 +0300

Rouva D wrote:

Ponytail2020

Thanks for your input, dear.

(I just moved this to a more suitable area.)

That's Good too Hear and Thank You Mrs D

Troubles posting?

mybb@mybb.ru (Nahkiss) — Mon, 10 Nov 2025 16:52:56 +0300

Minä sain postattua esittelyni ainakin. Vähän tää vaatii totuttelua.

Häkit - cages

mybb@mybb.ru (Rouva D) — Fri, 07 Nov 2025 17:52:34 +0300

Kinky drawings

mybb@mybb.ru (Rouva D) — Wed, 01 Oct 2025 10:57:38 +0300

The prison of your dreams / Unelmiesi vankila

mybb@mybb.ru (Rouva D) — Thu, 25 Sep 2025 08:06:48 +0300

The prison of your dreams. What would it be like?

How does it look? In a what kind of cell you�d be locked in? What would you wear? What kind of restrictions you`d have? A typical day in you dream prison?

Unelmiesi vankila. Millainen se olisi?

Miltä siellä näyttää? Millaiseen selliin olisit lukittuna? Mitä sinulla olisi päälläsi ja millaisia rajoituksia sinulla olisi? Tyypillinen päivä unelmavankilassasi?

Weekend Guest / Viikonloppuvieras

mybb@mybb.ru (Rouva D) — Mon, 22 Sep 2025 12:40:04 +0300

No voi harmi, kukaan ei halua tietää. Kirjoittelen loput osat toisaalle. ;)

Too bad, nobody wants to know. I`ll write the rest elsewhere. ;)

Linkkejä - Links

mybb@mybb.ru (Rouva D) — Thu, 04 Sep 2025 10:19:02 +0300

Jos haluat nähdä tai lukea lisää, minut löytää internetin syövereistä muutamasta muustakin paikasta:
*
If you'd like to see or read more, you can find me in a few other corners of the internet as well:

Kotisivut / Homepage:
https://www.restrainedlove.fi/

Kuvasivusto / Photo page:
https://captiveman.pic.fi/kuvat/

Facebook:
https://www.facebook.com/restrainedlove

Instagram:
https://www.instagram.com/rouva_d/

Omia kokemuksia? Own experiences?

mybb@mybb.ru (Rouva D) — Mon, 01 Sep 2025 09:22:49 +0300

Olisi mukavaa lukea täällä käyvien omista kokemuksista. :)

.. tai toiveista kokea.

Huomaan, että lukijoita on, mutta ujous taitaa hieman vaivata. Rohkaisen kirjoittamaan, vaikka pienenkin kommentin. Luulen, että täällä voisi saada aikaan ihan hyvääkin keskustelua aiheesta ja aiheen vierestä. ;)

It would be nice to read about the experiences of those who visit here. :)

.. or about the hopes of experiencing.

I notice that there are readers, but I think shyness is a bit of a problem. I encourage you to write, even if it's a small comment. I think we could create a pretty good discussion here on the topic and off-topic. ;)

Some links - Joitakin linkkejä

mybb@mybb.ru (Rouva D) — Tue, 05 Aug 2025 13:03:47 +0300

Tähän ketjuun voi vapaasti liittää hyviä linkkivinkkejä. :)

Minä luonnollisesti aloitan omallani:

Linkki blogiini:
Link to my blog:

Restrained love

Linkki kuvasivustolleni:
Link to my photo pages:

CaptiveMan

Read this first - Lue tämä ensin

mybb@mybb.ru (Rouva D) — Tue, 05 Aug 2025 12:25:57 +0300

Pääsääntö tällä foorumilla on, että minä määrään.

Tätä ei sovi kyseenalaistaa millään tasolla. Olen ystävällinen, mutta tiukka moderaattori. Tämä palsta on perustettu omasta kiinnostuksestani aiheeseen ja halusta jakaa teemaa muitten samanmielisten kanssa. Palstalle ovat tervetulleita hallitsevat ja hallittavat, miehet ja naiset, kunhan osaavat käyttäytyä. Minua kohtaan erityisen hyvin, muita kohtaan tulee noudattaa peruskohteliasta käytöstä.

Kuvien suhteen on selkeä rajoitus: ei yhtäkään kuvaa naisesta millään lailla alistetussa asemassa. En voi sietää niitä. Tai liian "miehille suunnattua", ne ovat niin nähtyjä.

Miesten kuvat enemmän kuin sallittuja. Suorastaan toivottuja, minun ilokseni. Ihan niin alistuneena kuin tuntuu. Kuvaajasta tai kuvattavasta...
Muuten: melkoisen vapaasti, yksityisyyden suoja muistaen.

Tällä palstalla (toisin kuin Facebook -sivullani) annan varoituksen ennen ulospotkaisua. Olen sillä tavalla joustava. ;)

Tällä palstalla voimme keskustella englanniksi ja suomeksi.

- Rouva D

Yleisesti ottaen oletan, että ihmiset osaavat käyttää internetin tarjoamia käännösapuja, mutta tällä kertaa vielä erikseen englanniksi:

The main rule on this forum is that I rule.

This should not be questioned on any level. I am a friendly but strict moderator. This forum has been established out of my own interest in the topic and the desire to share the theme with other like-minded people. Rulers and ruled, men and women, are welcome on the forum, as long as they know how to behave. Treats me particularly well, basic polite behavior should be observed towards others.

There is a clear limitation regarding the images: not a single image of a woman in a submissive position in any way. I can't stand them. Or too "male-gaze". They are SO lame.
Otherwise: quite freely, keeping in mind the protection of privacy.

On this forum (unlike on my Facebook page) I give a warning before kicking out. I'm flexible that way. ;)

On this forum we can chat in English and Finnish.

- Mrs D